You and your partner set out to conquer the world together.
But lately, you’re spending a lot more time battling each other than acting as a united front.
When you and your partner first got together you were inseparable. You were the type of couple all your friends wanted to be, and you had the strong partnership you’d hoped for. You spent your time building each other up and encouraging each other to chase your dreams. You wanted the success in your personal and professional lives to equal what you had found in your romantic life. At least, you thought you did…
When you look at your life today, it breaks your heart to see how different your relationship has become. Both you and your partner have reached the goals you set for yourselves, but you never expected the consequences of your busy life. And you certainly never expected the fallout to impact you romantically. On your most stressful days, you feel like you have to choose between doing the things that are going to move you forward or the things that are going to reconnect you to the person you love.
Well, we’re here to tell you, you’re not alone. The obligations you have to meet do not have to keep you from feeling the love you used to feel. You and your partner can find ways to communicate and show you appreciate each other despite the number of things you have to balance to keep your world spinning.
At Urban Wellness we’re sure about one thing
Couples counseling offers a safe space for you and your partner to explore the things in your relationship that may not be working well. It is a healthy and self-caring way to work on yourself and the ways you relate to others. Together, we can look at barriers that are keeping you and your partner from creating the change you are seeking and find the best ways to implement those changes. We can also help you manage the symptoms and behaviors that are creating distress in your relationship, whether it be communication issues, conflict management, money issues, or adjusting to life transitions.
Sometimes everything you have going on in your life can take over. You and your partner are pulled in so many different directions that at the end of the day you have nothing left to give the relationship. When this happens, you both get comfortable with the tiny bit of distance thinking you’ll reconnect later when your lives calm down. Unfortunately, the days when things slow down are few and far between and they never last long enough for you to rebuild what is slowly crumbling.
This doesn’t mean you and your partner can’t find a way to strengthen your bond, it just means you both have to find the skills to be intentional about your love and dedicate yourselves to helping it grow.
That’s where Urban Wellness comes in
Urban Wellness is a multi-disciplinary counseling center. Every therapist who works here practices a different specialty and is trained to meet the unique needs of the people in our community. We strive to provide well-rounded care to all the everyone who lives in our neighborhood. Each therapist tailors his or her approach to the couple seeking counseling and makes a point to meet the clients where they are in their healing process. We promise to find the counselor who is the best fit for you and your partner’s current concerns.
When You Seek Couples Therapy at Urban Wellness Counseling:
Clients who engage in couples counseling at Urban Wellness can expect to utilize a variety of tools to improve communication and emotional connection. Our focus is to make a safe space for you and your partner to openly discuss obstacles within your relationship, resentments that have built, and other areas that allow you to grow as a couple and individually.
Urban Wellness is the place for couples to recognize the aspects of themselves and their relationships that need improving so they can build a stable and connected life going forward.
Perhaps you and your partner are looking for a way to jumpstart the connection you’ve built. Your busy lives have caused you to grow apart and you’re hoping to tune back into the feeling that brought you together in the first place. You’re not sure if traditional weekly couples counseling is for you, but you know you need to start exploring some options. Urban Wellness can help. We offer half-day couples counseling intensives to help you and your partner get back on track. Click here to learn more.
Or maybe you and your partner are feeling more like roommates than lovers. The distance has grown between you and the lack of connection is taking its toll. You know you still love each other and can genuinely count on each other when times get difficult, but you’d both like the spark back. You’re looking for the best ways to move forward together. To feel like a unit again. When you seek couple’s rejuvenation therapy at Urban Wellness, you will be connected with a counselor who is an expert on helping people regain the warmth in their relationships. You will work together to rekindle your intimacy, so you can strengthen your relationship for the long-term. Click here to learn more.
Other times, the distance in your relationship can cause more than a disconnect and you find that you and your partner are fighting more than ever before. The arguments are frequent and often turn uglier than either of you would like to admit. You’ve gotten to a point where you’re living two separate lives and you’re doubtful there is a way to recover the relationship. Whether you’ve been through infidelity or feel like you’re preparing for divorce, here at Urban Wellness we have therapists specifically trained to treat clients with relationships that are in distress. Click here to learn more.
When it comes down to it, the state of your relationship matters to you and you and your partner are ready to take the steps necessary to make the changes you need.
Call +1 (773) 774-4444×0 to schedule a therapy session for couples’ counseling today.